{"id":6119,"date":"2020-06-04T10:52:03","date_gmt":"2020-06-04T03:52:03","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/best-seller.gramedia.com\/?p=6119"},"modified":"2020-09-18T17:29:31","modified_gmt":"2020-09-18T10:29:31","slug":"alasan-jangan-buru-buru-menikah","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.gramedia.com\/best-seller\/alasan-jangan-buru-buru-menikah\/","title":{"rendered":"Jangan Buru-Buru Menikah karena 5 Alasan Ini"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Ingatlah bahwa menikah itu urusannya dengan Tuhan dan jangka waktunya seumur hidup. Hal ini tentu bukan sesuatu yang bisa diputuskan dengan sembarangan.<\/p>\n<p>Jadi, jangan sampai momen sakral ini menjadi tidak maksimal karena kamu belum siap, dan terlalu terburu-buru untuk melanjutkan hubungan ke jenjang yang lebih serius.<\/p>\n<p>Ini kehidupan nyata, bukan sedang bermain\u00c2\u00a0<em>game<\/em>\u00c2\u00a0simulasi yang bisa di-<em>save<\/em>\u00c2\u00a0dan\u00c2\u00a0<em>load<\/em>\u00c2\u00a0seenak hati jika pernikahan sedang mengalami masalah.<\/p>\n<p>Untuk itu, perhatikan lima alasan yang sering kita temui, ternyata merupakan alasan yang salah saat memutuskan untuk buru-buru menikah, lho.<\/p>\n<div id=\"ez-toc-container\" class=\"ez-toc-v2_0_17 counter-hierarchy counter-decimal ez-toc-grey\">\n<div class=\"ez-toc-title-container\">\n<p class=\"ez-toc-title\">Table of Contents<\/p>\n<span class=\"ez-toc-title-toggle\"><a class=\"ez-toc-pull-right ez-toc-btn ez-toc-btn-xs ez-toc-btn-default ez-toc-toggle\" style=\"display: none;\"><i class=\"ez-toc-glyphicon ez-toc-icon-toggle\"><\/i><\/a><\/span><\/div>\n<nav><ul class=\"ez-toc-list ez-toc-list-level-1\"><li class=\"ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-3\"><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-1\" href=\"https:\/\/www.gramedia.com\/best-seller\/alasan-jangan-buru-buru-menikah\/#1_Terlanjur_lama_berpacaran\" title=\"1. Terlanjur lama berpacaran\">1. Terlanjur lama berpacaran<\/a><\/li><li class=\"ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-3\"><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-2\" href=\"https:\/\/www.gramedia.com\/best-seller\/alasan-jangan-buru-buru-menikah\/#2_Balas_dendam_pada_mantan\" title=\"2. Balas dendam pada mantan\">2. Balas dendam pada mantan<\/a><\/li><li class=\"ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-3\"><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-3\" href=\"https:\/\/www.gramedia.com\/best-seller\/alasan-jangan-buru-buru-menikah\/#3_Menikah_karena_harta\" title=\"3. Menikah karena harta\">3. Menikah karena harta<\/a><\/li><li class=\"ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-3\"><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-4\" href=\"https:\/\/www.gramedia.com\/best-seller\/alasan-jangan-buru-buru-menikah\/#4_Dikejar_umur\" title=\"4. Dikejar umur\">4. Dikejar umur<\/a><\/li><li class=\"ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-3\"><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-5\" href=\"https:\/\/www.gramedia.com\/best-seller\/alasan-jangan-buru-buru-menikah\/#5_Tuntutan_orangtua\" title=\"5. Tuntutan orangtua\">5. Tuntutan orangtua<\/a><\/li><\/ul><\/nav><\/div>\n<h3 id=\"1-terlanjur-lama-berpacaran\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"1_Terlanjur_lama_berpacaran\"><\/span>1. Terlanjur lama berpacaran<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h3>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<figure id=\"attachment_6133\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-6133\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><img loading=\"lazy\" class=\" size-full wp-image-6133 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/sellers.gramedia.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/alasan-yang-salah-untuk-menikah-5_gramedia-digital.jpg\" alt=\"alasan-yang-salah-untuk-menikah-5_gramedia-digital\" width=\"600\" height=\"400\" srcset=\"https:\/\/cdnwpseller.gramedia.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/02083314\/alasan-yang-salah-untuk-menikah-5_gramedia-digital.jpg 600w, https:\/\/cdnwpseller.gramedia.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/02083314\/alasan-yang-salah-untuk-menikah-5_gramedia-digital-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/cdnwpseller.gramedia.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/02083314\/alasan-yang-salah-untuk-menikah-5_gramedia-digital-180x120.jpg 180w, https:\/\/cdnwpseller.gramedia.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/02083314\/alasan-yang-salah-untuk-menikah-5_gramedia-digital-561x374.jpg 561w, https:\/\/cdnwpseller.gramedia.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/02083314\/alasan-yang-salah-untuk-menikah-5_gramedia-digital-364x243.jpg 364w, https:\/\/cdnwpseller.gramedia.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/02083314\/alasan-yang-salah-untuk-menikah-5_gramedia-digital-72x48.jpg 72w, https:\/\/cdnwpseller.gramedia.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/02083314\/alasan-yang-salah-untuk-menikah-5_gramedia-digital-144x96.jpg 144w, https:\/\/cdnwpseller.gramedia.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/02083314\/alasan-yang-salah-untuk-menikah-5_gramedia-digital-313x209.jpg 313w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 600px) 100vw, 600px\" \/><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-6133\" class=\"wp-caption-text\"><strong>Photo by Brooke Cagle on Unsplash<\/strong><\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Mereka sebenarnya tidak merasa cocok, namun takut nanti tidak akan mendapatkan pasangan lagi jika memutuskan berpisah.<\/p>\n<p>Selain itu, malas untuk memulai lagi dari awal hubungan yang baru dan mencari-cari lagi, juga menjadi faktor utama.<\/p>\n<p>Lama waktu berpacaran tidak berpengaruh apa pun jika kalian berdua memang merasa tidak cocok di awal dan belum siap menikah, jangan dipaksakan.<\/p>\n<p>Sebelum memasuki ke jenjang yang lebih serius, jangan takut untuk menyatakan kepada pasangan bahwa kamu merasa bahwa<em>\u00c2\u00a0he\/she isn\u00e2\u20ac\u2122t the one.<\/em><\/p>\n<h3 id=\"2-balas-dendam-pada-mantan\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"2_Balas_dendam_pada_mantan\"><\/span>2. Balas dendam pada mantan<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h3>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<figure id=\"attachment_6132\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-6132\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><img loading=\"lazy\" class=\" size-full wp-image-6132 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/sellers.gramedia.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/alasan-yang-salah-untuk-menikah-1_gramedia-digital.jpg\" alt=\"alasan-yang-salah-untuk-menikah-1_gramedia-digital\" width=\"600\" height=\"400\" srcset=\"https:\/\/cdnwpseller.gramedia.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/02083325\/alasan-yang-salah-untuk-menikah-1_gramedia-digital.jpg 600w, https:\/\/cdnwpseller.gramedia.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/02083325\/alasan-yang-salah-untuk-menikah-1_gramedia-digital-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/cdnwpseller.gramedia.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/02083325\/alasan-yang-salah-untuk-menikah-1_gramedia-digital-180x120.jpg 180w, https:\/\/cdnwpseller.gramedia.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/02083325\/alasan-yang-salah-untuk-menikah-1_gramedia-digital-561x374.jpg 561w, https:\/\/cdnwpseller.gramedia.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/02083325\/alasan-yang-salah-untuk-menikah-1_gramedia-digital-364x243.jpg 364w, https:\/\/cdnwpseller.gramedia.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/02083325\/alasan-yang-salah-untuk-menikah-1_gramedia-digital-72x48.jpg 72w, https:\/\/cdnwpseller.gramedia.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/02083325\/alasan-yang-salah-untuk-menikah-1_gramedia-digital-144x96.jpg 144w, https:\/\/cdnwpseller.gramedia.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/02083325\/alasan-yang-salah-untuk-menikah-1_gramedia-digital-313x209.jpg 313w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 600px) 100vw, 600px\" \/><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-6132\" class=\"wp-caption-text\"><strong>Photo by Deden Dicky Ramdhani from Pexels<\/strong><\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Memang sakit rasanya melihat mantan berada di pelaminan dan bukan dengan kita, namun upaya balas dendam dengan menyusul mantan dengan menikahi orang lain secepatnya, bukanlah strategi yang tepat.<\/p>\n<p>Memang apa yang coba kamu tunjukkan, sih? Bahwa kamu baik-baik saja meski tanpa dia? Atau ada orang lain yang juga ingin serius denganmu?<\/p>\n<p>Jangan sampai masa lalu menghantuimu. Lupakan mantan, dan coba untuk menata hidup barumu, sambil berdoa dan memantaskan diri untuk segera mendapatkan yang terbaik!<\/p>\n<h3 id=\"3-menikah-karena-harta\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"3_Menikah_karena_harta\"><\/span>3. Menikah karena harta<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h3>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<figure id=\"attachment_6131\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-6131\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><img loading=\"lazy\" class=\" size-full wp-image-6131 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/sellers.gramedia.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/alasan-yang-salah-untuk-menikah-3_gramedia-digital.jpg\" alt=\"alasan-yang-salah-untuk-menikah-3_gramedia-digital\" width=\"600\" height=\"400\" srcset=\"https:\/\/cdnwpseller.gramedia.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/02083336\/alasan-yang-salah-untuk-menikah-3_gramedia-digital.jpg 600w, https:\/\/cdnwpseller.gramedia.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/02083336\/alasan-yang-salah-untuk-menikah-3_gramedia-digital-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/cdnwpseller.gramedia.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/02083336\/alasan-yang-salah-untuk-menikah-3_gramedia-digital-180x120.jpg 180w, https:\/\/cdnwpseller.gramedia.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/02083336\/alasan-yang-salah-untuk-menikah-3_gramedia-digital-561x374.jpg 561w, https:\/\/cdnwpseller.gramedia.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/02083336\/alasan-yang-salah-untuk-menikah-3_gramedia-digital-364x243.jpg 364w, https:\/\/cdnwpseller.gramedia.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/02083336\/alasan-yang-salah-untuk-menikah-3_gramedia-digital-72x48.jpg 72w, https:\/\/cdnwpseller.gramedia.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/02083336\/alasan-yang-salah-untuk-menikah-3_gramedia-digital-144x96.jpg 144w, https:\/\/cdnwpseller.gramedia.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/02083336\/alasan-yang-salah-untuk-menikah-3_gramedia-digital-313x209.jpg 313w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 600px) 100vw, 600px\" \/><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-6131\" class=\"wp-caption-text\"><strong>Photo by Thomas AE on Unsplash<\/strong><\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Wah, terdengar seperti plot cerita sinetron ya? Tapi, kenyataannya banyak orang yang tergiur untuk menikah karena silau dengan kekayaan.<\/p>\n<p>Apa bisa kamu mencintai seseorang hanya karena hartanya? Dalam perjalanannya, bukan tidak mungkin harta kekayaan yang dipunya, tiba-tiba hilang menguap begitu saja.<\/p>\n<p>Ketika hilang, bagaimana kelangsungan pernikahanmu? Apa kamu akan tetap setia dan cinta kepadanya? Dalam kasus seperti ini, hanya cinta yang dapat menyelamatkan kalian berdua, bukan harta.<\/p>\n<p>Luruskan niatmu dulu!<\/p>\n<hr \/>\n<p><strong>Baca juga:\u00c2\u00a0<\/strong><em><a href=\"https:\/\/www.gramedia.com\/best-seller\/tanda-fase-quarter-life-crisis-tidak-disadari\/\">5 Tanda Quarter-life Crisis yang Mungkin Nggak Kamu Sadari<\/a><\/em><\/p>\n<hr \/>\n<h3><\/h3>\n<h3 id=\"4-dikejar-umur\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"4_Dikejar_umur\"><\/span>4. Dikejar umur<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h3>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<figure id=\"attachment_6130\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-6130\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><img loading=\"lazy\" class=\" size-full wp-image-6130 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/sellers.gramedia.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/alasan-yang-salah-untuk-menikah-2_gramedia-digital.jpg\" alt=\"alasan-yang-salah-untuk-menikah-2_gramedia-digital\" width=\"600\" height=\"400\" srcset=\"https:\/\/cdnwpseller.gramedia.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/02083347\/alasan-yang-salah-untuk-menikah-2_gramedia-digital.jpg 600w, https:\/\/cdnwpseller.gramedia.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/02083347\/alasan-yang-salah-untuk-menikah-2_gramedia-digital-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/cdnwpseller.gramedia.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/02083347\/alasan-yang-salah-untuk-menikah-2_gramedia-digital-180x120.jpg 180w, https:\/\/cdnwpseller.gramedia.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/02083347\/alasan-yang-salah-untuk-menikah-2_gramedia-digital-561x374.jpg 561w, https:\/\/cdnwpseller.gramedia.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/02083347\/alasan-yang-salah-untuk-menikah-2_gramedia-digital-364x243.jpg 364w, https:\/\/cdnwpseller.gramedia.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/02083347\/alasan-yang-salah-untuk-menikah-2_gramedia-digital-72x48.jpg 72w, https:\/\/cdnwpseller.gramedia.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/02083347\/alasan-yang-salah-untuk-menikah-2_gramedia-digital-144x96.jpg 144w, https:\/\/cdnwpseller.gramedia.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/02083347\/alasan-yang-salah-untuk-menikah-2_gramedia-digital-313x209.jpg 313w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 600px) 100vw, 600px\" \/><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-6130\" class=\"wp-caption-text\"><strong>Photo by David Thomaz on Unsplash<\/strong><\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Tidak bisa dipungkiri bahwa alasan dikejar umur merupakan alasan yang paling banyak ditemui, khususnya perempuan.<\/p>\n<p>Ada perumpamaan bahwa perempuan semakin tua ada masa\u00c2\u00a0<em>expired<\/em>, semakin tua akan semakin tidak dipilih. Sungguh jahat ya perumpamaan ini?<\/p>\n<p>Padahal, sebenarnya jika memang belum menemukan pasangan yang cocok, memutuskan untuk\u00c2\u00a0<em>single<\/em>\u00c2\u00a0terlebih dahulu dan menunda untuk menikah bukanlah masalah.<\/p>\n<p>Lebih baik kamu tetap fokus untuk terus meningkatkan kualitas diri, sehingga nanti akan ada pasangan yang pantas dan menerima dirimu apa adanya, tentunya dengan kualitas yang baik juga.<\/p>\n<h3 id=\"5-tuntutan-orangtua\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"5_Tuntutan_orangtua\"><\/span>5. Tuntutan orangtua<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h3>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<figure id=\"attachment_6129\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-6129\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><img loading=\"lazy\" class=\" size-full wp-image-6129 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/sellers.gramedia.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/alasan-yang-salah-untuk-menikah-6_gramedia-digital.jpg\" alt=\"alasan-yang-salah-untuk-menikah-6_gramedia-digital\" width=\"600\" height=\"400\" srcset=\"https:\/\/cdnwpseller.gramedia.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/02083359\/alasan-yang-salah-untuk-menikah-6_gramedia-digital.jpg 600w, https:\/\/cdnwpseller.gramedia.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/02083359\/alasan-yang-salah-untuk-menikah-6_gramedia-digital-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/cdnwpseller.gramedia.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/02083359\/alasan-yang-salah-untuk-menikah-6_gramedia-digital-180x120.jpg 180w, https:\/\/cdnwpseller.gramedia.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/02083359\/alasan-yang-salah-untuk-menikah-6_gramedia-digital-561x374.jpg 561w, https:\/\/cdnwpseller.gramedia.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/02083359\/alasan-yang-salah-untuk-menikah-6_gramedia-digital-364x243.jpg 364w, https:\/\/cdnwpseller.gramedia.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/02083359\/alasan-yang-salah-untuk-menikah-6_gramedia-digital-72x48.jpg 72w, https:\/\/cdnwpseller.gramedia.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/02083359\/alasan-yang-salah-untuk-menikah-6_gramedia-digital-144x96.jpg 144w, https:\/\/cdnwpseller.gramedia.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/02083359\/alasan-yang-salah-untuk-menikah-6_gramedia-digital-313x209.jpg 313w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 600px) 100vw, 600px\" \/><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-6129\" class=\"wp-caption-text\"><strong>Photo by Pixabay from Pexels<\/strong><\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<blockquote><p><em>\u00e2\u20ac\u0153Itu lho nak, anak teman mama seumuranmu udah pada nikah. Kamu kapan?\u00e2\u20ac\u009d<\/em><\/p><\/blockquote>\n<blockquote><p><em>\u00e2\u20ac\u0153Duh nak, mama ingin segera menimang cucu nih. Buruan nikah, gih.\u00e2\u20ac\u009d<\/em><\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>Serta berbagai ucapan lainnya yang mungkin familiar kamu dengar dari orangtuamu.<\/p>\n<p>Memang, di Indonesia para orangtua masih memiliki andil yang besar dalam menentukan kehidupan anaknya, khususnya dalam pernikahan.<\/p>\n<p>Jika kamu mengalaminya, berusahalah dengan baik dan sopan untuk memberikan penjelasan kepada orangtua, mengapa saat ini kamu masih belum menikah, dan juga meminta doa restu kepada mereka.<\/p>\n<p>Hindari pertengkaran sekecil mungkin agar tidak membuat mereka kesal, dan menimbulkan perdebatan yang akan kamu sesali nanti.<\/p>\n<hr \/>\n<p><strong>Baca juga:\u00c2\u00a0<\/strong><em><a href=\"https:\/\/www.gramedia.com\/best-seller\/rekomendasi-buku-self-improvement-terbaik-mei-2020\/?utm_source=blog&amp;utm_medium=content%20marketing&amp;utm_campaign=regular&amp;utm_content=article\">Rekomendasi Buku Self Improvement Mei 2020<\/a><\/em><\/p>\n<hr \/>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Agar kamu makin siap dalam menghadapi seluk-beluk pernikahan, kamu bisa membaca buku\u00c2\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/ebooks.gramedia.com\/id\/buku\/the-ultimate-wedding-guide?utm_source=blog&amp;utm_medium=content%20marketing&amp;utm_campaign=regular&amp;utm_content=article\"><em>The Ultimate Wedding Guide<\/em>\u00c2\u00a0<\/a>oleh Caroline Muliawan.<\/p>\n<p>Dalam buku ini, kamu akan mengetahui seperti apa kehidupan pernikahan dan apa yang harus kamu lakukan untuk membina rumah tangga.<\/p>\n<p>Dari cara mendapatkan hati mertua, hitung-hitungan\u00c2\u00a0<em>budget<\/em>\u00c2\u00a0resepsi, bagaimana cara mengatur keuangan sebagai pasangan, dan masih banyak lagi.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<figure id=\"attachment_6139\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-6139\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><a href=\"https:\/\/ebooks.gramedia.com\/id\/buku\/the-ultimate-wedding-guide?utm_source=blog&amp;utm_medium=content%20marketing&amp;utm_campaign=regular&amp;utm_content=article\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\"><img loading=\"lazy\" class=\" size-full wp-image-6139 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/sellers.gramedia.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/the-ultimate-wedding-guide_gramedia-digital.jpg\" alt=\"the-ultimate-wedding-guide_gramedia-digital\" width=\"400\" height=\"599\" srcset=\"https:\/\/cdnwpseller.gramedia.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/02083302\/the-ultimate-wedding-guide_gramedia-digital.jpg 400w, https:\/\/cdnwpseller.gramedia.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/02083302\/the-ultimate-wedding-guide_gramedia-digital-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/cdnwpseller.gramedia.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/02083302\/the-ultimate-wedding-guide_gramedia-digital-364x545.jpg 364w, https:\/\/cdnwpseller.gramedia.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/02083302\/the-ultimate-wedding-guide_gramedia-digital-32x48.jpg 32w, https:\/\/cdnwpseller.gramedia.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/02083302\/the-ultimate-wedding-guide_gramedia-digital-64x96.jpg 64w, https:\/\/cdnwpseller.gramedia.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/02083302\/the-ultimate-wedding-guide_gramedia-digital-313x469.jpg 313w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 400px) 100vw, 400px\" \/><\/a><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-6139\" class=\"wp-caption-text\"><strong><a href=\"https:\/\/ebooks.gramedia.com\/id\/buku\/the-ultimate-wedding-guide?utm_source=blog&amp;utm_medium=content%20marketing&amp;utm_campaign=regular&amp;utm_content=article\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Baca <em>e-book<\/em>-nya sekarang<\/a><\/strong><\/figcaption><\/figure>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Jangan sampai momen sakral pernikahan menjadi tidak maksimal karena terburu-buru, ketahui dulu lima alasan yang salah untuk menikah ini. <a class=\"g1-link g1-link-more\" href=\"https:\/\/www.gramedia.com\/best-seller\/alasan-jangan-buru-buru-menikah\/\">More<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":185532970,"featured_media":6120,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[1735],"tags":[1760,1759,1464,1422],"yoast_head":"<!-- This site is optimized with the Yoast SEO plugin v17.0 - https:\/\/yoast.com\/wordpress\/plugins\/seo\/ -->\n<title>Jangan Buru-Buru Menikah karena 5 Alasan Ini - Best Seller Gramedia<\/title>\n<meta name=\"description\" content=\"Berikut lima alasan yang salah saat memutuskan untuk buru-buru menikah. 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